Tuesday, February 21, 2017


Post 91

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Post 91

Bless You!
 

We hear this often, don’t we?  Someone sneezes, bless you!  In parting, God bless you.  You receive a compliment or gift, bless you!  In speaking of the deceased, bless his soul.  I close my letters and GRM Blog Posts, Blessings.  Actually, what do we mean?

Do the words bless or blessing(s) carry a particular connotation or are they used simply as a nicety, a pretty-sounding expression, a polite response?  Frequently, I wonder what the personal response to a “bless you” message might be to an individual who may not be especially faith-oriented or who is struggling with his/her faith.  When a clergyperson exclaims, God bless you!, could this sound shallow?  Then again, how often do we really think about the meaning of this commonly used expression? 

For the February 2017 GRM Blog edition, we’ll dig deeper into the words “blessing, bless, and blessed” – and hopefully, gain additional insights into our claiming blessings upon our fellow members of humankind!

Years ago, I came across wise words with regard to asking God how to bless a person.  How does one pray blessings upon someone?  How can we cover the individual with prayerful blessings?  Actually, the word B-L-E-S-S serves as our guide.  I urge the clergy and lay ministers who are working toward the IGCCB** Clergy/Lay Ministers Certification in Gambling Addiction Prevention, Education, Awareness, and Spiritual Outreach Care to use this guide as they discuss recovery issues with persons affected directly and indirectly by gambling addiction.  May the following be of help to you as you proclaim blessings upon others.

B     BODY     physical health, renewal

L     LABOR     being productive, being effective

E    EMOTIONAL LIFE     healthy and holy*

S     SOCIAL LIFE     healthy and holy*

S     SPIRITUAL LIFE       healthy and holy*

(NOTE:  * holy: according to one’s tenets of faith)

Now, let’s add additional dimension to the Blessings Guide. 

From a recent sermon given by Rev. Lawrence Nielsen (Senior Pastor, Integrity Gospel Church) I have been given permission to share the following thoughts.

“ Where do God’s promises and blessings end and our responses begin?  Where does God’s will meet our will in the divine-human encounter?  It has not always been easy to discern … Why take the time to talk about God’s blessings when behind the scenes we plot our own course to get our own way anyhow? … The story of God’s blessing and call to Abram reminds us that the focus of God’s blessings is not on the one being blessed.  Rather, God’s blessings focus on how to share with others.  Abram was blessed to be a blessing, not for personal gain [Genesis 12:2] ... God blesses, and we then bless others … Why does God give us gifts and talents?  Why does God grant us peace and even sometimes prosperity?  The answer is not found in keeping things to ourselves.  Rather, it is found in the movement from self to God … God blesses us so that we can be a blessing to others – even those who may hurt or injure us … Our mission, as God’s people, as Christ’s church, as fathers and mothers, is not simply to take care of our own, but to take the promise of blessing and hope beyond ourselves to all of God’s children today and in the generations to come.”

In this same vein of receiving blessings, members of Gamblers Anonymous and Gam-Anon share their blessings of recovery through Step 12 of the GA/Gam-Anon 12 Steps Recovery Programs.  I have witnessed the incredible blessings that flow from GA and Gam-Anon members as they follow this Step and help others who are suffering.

Having made an effort to practice these principles in all our affairs, we tried to carry out this message to other compulsive gamblers/ others.

MAY YOU BE BLESSED!

Rev. Janet Jacobs CCGSO

Founding Director

Gambling Recovery Ministries


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