March and April 2010 Revisited!

Post 4
As I glance at the calendar, I am reminded that April is almost over and that March is already history! Indeed, these two months hosted several functions at which Gambling Recovery Ministries participated. As usual, the variety of opportunities to tell the good news of help and hope for those affected - directly and indirectly - by compulsive gambling ranged from providing information booths at health fairs, to workshops presented at professsional continuing education conferences, to pulpit presentations.

At the State of Ohio 2010 Perspectives in Problem Gambling Symposium, on March 10, I presented the Workshop "PROBLEM GAMBLING: A Practical Primer for Pastors and Faith-Based Counselors". This presentation included The Spiritual Arena of the Compulsive Gambler, Tips & Tools, and Lessons Learned. To a very interested audience, many topics were explored; and much appreciation was expressed by the attendees for the multiple handouts given on gambling addiction and recovery issues.

On April 6, I presented the Workshop "Teen Gambling: An Emerging Concern for a Healthier America" during the Annual State Conference of the Indiana Public Health Association and Indiana University Department of Applied Health Science. Again, the workshop participants showed much interest in the topic and much appreciation for the many handouts. Interestingly, a couple of attendees spoke about the prevalence of texting by today's teens. In the days following the conference, I thought about this and wondered if such a fast and easy mode of comunicating would become a growing factor in the ways that bet-placing might occur.

Then a recent report given on national television added more to my thoughts on this topic. Apparently, sending text messages is not only regarded as convenient and expedient but also it has become - for some teens - an everpresent, ongoing habit. The immediacy of a reply - again, for some - provides a heightened sense of pleasure. As a former teacher, I thought about the potential challenge of this kind of communication going on in the classroom. As a parent, I remembered how telephone calls could seem to make a teenager's day. As a pastor in addiction ministries, I contemplate the negative potential that texting might bring to the user who grows dependent on instant replies - and plenty of them. Could this become an addiction? As Director of Gambling Recovery Ministries, I question: could this, somehow, enhance an already growing other addiction or compulsive behavior?

Although these thoughts and questions may not have treatment answers to them, at the present, I believe that they serve as a reminder: a reminder NOT to underestimate the impact of something that could bring instant gratification - for any age.

Have you thoughts or concerns on this issue - or on other topics related to problem gambling and recovery? Let me hear from you with your comments to this Blog!

For more information on Problem Gambling go to http://www.grmumc.org/

Rev. Janet Jacobs
Director, Gambling Recovery Ministries

Post 3

Frontier Ministry

The initial funding from South Indiana Conference had come through – at least for the first year or two. I would keep on with the parish ministry, as well, while working to get Gambling Recovery Ministries up and running. So what should happen first? My District Superintendent said that we needed a Board of Directors – and that he would help with recruitment. Basically, it turned out to be an easy task. Our group was a committed one – fascinated with the challenge of outreach to persons affected by problem gambling ... and to creating something new.

We just didn’t know how new our ministry would be.
Of course, there were goals and a mission statement to put together. And so the work began. Initially, we figured there just had to be a similar ministry to problem gamblers: one that addressed gambling addiction with the basic focus of recovery. We would find out how such a ministry functioned – and then, simply pattern our efforts after this model. No such luck, we discovered quickly. (Dare, I use that word?)

Yes, there were treatment facilities and counseling agencies – though not many that specialized only in treating compulsive gamblers. And there were some ministries that included a focus on addictions, in general. Still, we continued to look for a single-focus type of outreach to gamblers and their families.

What we did find within church parishes, however, was the lack of informative resources about problem gambling recovery issues – and the lack of knowledge about gambling addiction, period.

What, then, were we to do on this frontier of ministry?
Not long after our first Board meeting, I decided to go directly to the experienced – those who knew compulsive gambling best – and who knew recovery, as well.

I picked up the phone and called the Gamblers Anonymous Hot Line in Cincinnati. As luck would have it, the GA volunteer manning the phone caught the vision of GRM – immediately - and invited me to an Open Meeting in the area. It turned out to be an event called a Pinning – a special celebration of abstinence from gambling by a GA member. I was moved. The evidence was clear: new life was being celebrated by both the gambler and the family members.

Nine years later, I am still moved. I continue to witness the recovery of gamblers – and their loved ones – through Gamblers Anonymous, Gam-A-Non, and treatment.

Still, there was much to be developed in GRM’s outreach to those affected by problem gambling. How could we effectively be of help to compulsive gamblers and their families? We continued to discover that in pioneering this new ministry ...

we had much to learn!

Rev. Janet Jacobs
Director, Gambling Recovery Ministries

Post 2

It was a cold and snowy night …
I closed Post 1 with a promise to explain GRM’s logo in the next entry. As mentioned before, there is a story behind this! While you read on, you might take an occasional glance at the logo. Most likely, by story’s end, you will be able to see how the symbolism in the logo matches our narrative.

In the beginning … and even before the story begins

It had been an exciting five years for Quercus Grove United Methodist Church in rural Switzerland County, Indiana. God’s assurance of provision and guidance had embodied their expanding food pantry ministry right from the start. It was not only a surprise to this congregation, numbering 30-some in membership, to be asked to provide the only food bank in the county, but also, it proved to be an amazing – and rewarding - stretch of faith to all involved. The two room church without plumbing turned into a multi-building site housing kitchen and bathroom facilities, modest warehouses, and a grocery free-store. South Indiana Conference of The United Methodist Church supplied two portable buildings; food poured in from a variety of unexpected sources; and church members from other neighboring congregations helped during the monthly Food Pantry Sundays. The Feeding of the Multitudes gospel story took on deeper levels of revelation for the Quercus Grove faithful as their ministry grew far beyond expectation.

January 2001
Encouraged by such renewed energy and growth, a Conference Staff member and my District Superintendent invited me – as Quercus Grove’s pastor – to meet with them over dinner one wintry evening in January 2001. Basically, we met to talk about further outreach possibilities in the southeast corner of the State. During dessert, the lady turned to me and said, “Janet, you have lived in this area for quite a long time; and you have seen the riverboat casinos come. Have you heard any stories of persons who have been affected by problem gambling? Indeed, local talk contained this information and I shared a couple of the stories. Then she asked what has become known as …

THE question:

What are the churches doing about it?

In other words, what are the churches doing to reach out to persons

affected, directly and/or indirectly, by gambling addiction?

Although I could give examples of persons debilitated by compulsive gambling, I had no answer for her second question. Soon the two began talking about developing a new ministry – one that would reach out to problem gamblers and their loved ones. The more they talked, the quieter I became. Finally, my DS turned to me and announced:

“We even have a Director for this new ministry!

And she is … Rev. Janet Jacobs!” To be honest, I wanted to flee.

Although I found recovery stories from other addictions to be compelling, accounts describing compulsive gamblers repulsed me. That evening, it was my earnest hope that this dinner conversation would soon be forgotten, once we returned to our homes.

Instead, that snowy evening marked the beginning

of what was to become Gambling Recovery Ministries. Intrigued and inspired, South Indiana Conference Council on Ministries Director, suggested the new ministry’s name. At Annual Conference, in June, funding from South Indiana Conference was approved to start this new outreach.

The months following GRM’s official beginning, were filled with organizational steps and much learning about disordered gambling and recovery issues. Each step we took seemed like a crossroad, progressively moving us into ministry with hurting people, devastated by gambling addiction. During these initial steps, the personal motivation, that I was, at first, sorely lacking, began increasingly to build - to create and grow this unique ministry to problem gamblers and their loved ones.

Ahead of us and by our side, God

opened doors and provided opportunities for us to traverse each new crossroad and continue to take the steps essential in developing the ministry. We counted on the Holy Spirit’s leadings and steady direction!

The Flames:

God’s Holy Spirit surrounds the path GRM continues to take

in reaching out

to problem gamblers and their families.

The Cross:

Christ’s love for all overarches

each

step of ministry we take,

crossroad we meet,

and decision we make.

Next Post: A Frontier Ministry!

For warning signs of problem gambling, visit our web site.

Rev. Janet Jacobs

Director, Gambling Recovery Ministries

Welcome!

Greetings and welcome to the initial Post of Gambling Recovery Ministries’ Blog! As Director – and founder – of Gambling Recovery Ministries (otherwise known as GRM), I will be writing posts on a variety of topics about compulsive gambling. Included will be stories of GRM’s beginnings, how we ever got started, and lessons learned.

With total respect for anonymity, I will share insights gained from meeting and becoming friends with persons in recovery. And you’ll find bite-sized bits of research learned at professional conferences on problem gambling too. Also, I’ll keep you posted on GRM’s latest steps in outreach to problem gamblers and their loved ones.

At Gambling Recovery Ministries’ onset, I knew very little about compulsive gambling – and even less about treatment resources and recovery issues. That was 2001. Much has been learned in eight years!

A high priority was – and continues to be – learning, learning, learning about gambling addiction. Completing Indiana’s 60 hour State training on compulsive gambling treatment issues and attending numerous conferences, lead me on the training/teaching path. In recent years, GRM has presented continuing education workshops on local, State, regional, national and international levels for mental health professionals and clergy. We have even put on three training conferences!

Most importantly, GRM works with individuals seeking recovery. We provide referral information and – what I call - supportive consultation. In fact, this help extends to both the gambler and his/her loved ones. Our aim is to give information about problem gambling and point the way to treatment and support groups. People literally leave the GRM Office and Resource Center with bags full of literature!

GRM provides spiritual support, as well. The word Ministries in GRM means just that. We are open to persons of all faiths – and to those who are not faith-based. We provide prayer, when requested; and there have been wondrous answers to prayers said. Then too, there is free-range discussion on faith issues relating to addiction. Among the recovery materials are faith-based helps, also.

As we take this new step of blogging, I invite you to travel with us too. Ask questions, post comments, share information! Post 2 will explain GRM’s logo, as viewed in this Blog. There is a story behind this – definitely. Look carefully: perhaps, you will be able to figure out part of the story already!

Blessings,
Janet


Rev. Janet Jacobs
Director, Gambling Recovery Ministries
Indiana Conference Advance Special
The United Methodist Church